Well, the answer is “You have to be a true soul.” To be more precise the answer is “YOU” yourself. You know the best about yourself and not even your god! Still some people don’t believe in Gods. But everyone believes in the facts perceived to them. Your soul is perceived to yourself the best. Stripping the masks would unravel the masked true soul. “Believe” in yourself. You need to have an experience to prosper. There’s no shortcut to success and firstly no shortcut to thrive. The only actuality is that some reach the point expeditiously and some slowly.
How?
The public in this race are of different types :-
1. The ones who are still thinking.
2. The ones who are heading slowly experiencing the world thoroughly, they are bounded to move through a slow pace.
3. Some move rapidly in the commencement and then crash due to lack of experience gained in the swiftness. They are often the ones left far behind and are no where.
4. The people moving slowly at the beginning and swiftly later. These are the ones who mostly succeed in their lives as they get the right track.
5. Others consist of a group which is further categorized into the above 4 categories. They are extreme hard workers. They are working exceptionally hard. But still why are they not satisfied with their lives? Its because their efforts are going to the wrong direction. If the efforts got the correct direction they would be somewhere else, satisfied with their lives. Trust me not satisfied with life is a Hell.
The remaining public can be found in any of these groups as aimless fellas!.
1st group
•The people who are still thinking are waiting for the right time , the right person etc.
•They are often criticized as lazy, dumbasses, aimless etc.
• I Believe they are one of the best persons found in the society.
•They aren’t lazy or aimless or dumbasses.
•They are still thinking, ask them what are they thinking respect their emotions, criticizing will get you nowhere.
•You would know they are having an aim for life.
•They either don’t know what to do for it? When to do?
•Some people between them are searching for excellence. For e.g.: they would not start a work until they get the full details about it. How to do? What to do? When to do? etc.
•The answer you would mostly getting is “BEST TIME TO START IS NOW” well its not. THE BEST TIME TO START IS TOMMOROW, TOMMOROW SHOULD COME. PLAN TODAY, START TOMMOROW. PLANNING IS VERY IMP. TO GET A DIRECTION TOWARDS THE POINT IN YOUR LIFE. What’s the point? The point is your Aim.
•YOU, YOURSELF IS THE PERSON WHO IS DOING THE ENTIRE PROCESS, SO THE RIGHT PERSON IS “YOU”
2nd , 3rd , 4th Group
Well, these 3 groups can be discussed combined. We need to discuss a Topic as “Negativity” for it.
NEGATIVITY
In this world. There is a high chance of people advising, forcing, torturing, harassing you to be positive.
Well, I believe “BE NEGATIVE.”
You would be thinking that has he gone nuts? What! Be Negative. You might not have heard it before. Trust me read on!
Being negative, is a way of life. You start to develop a negative mindset! Which will show you the worst in the bad! But, the worst will still be their to come. Gradually after slowing the pace of life as being negative, you’ll gain a lot of experience and transform into a positive person. The positivity inside you would have faced all the negativity and will know the importance of positivity. Hence, making it nearly impossible to become negative again. The positivity will be such strong that pace of life will gain speed. The rest of the journey, would too contain negativity and it won’t serve as a hurdle you in any or the other way. I am not just asking you to be completely negative, or to harm someone etc.
"Think negative, conceal it.
Speak positive, reveal it.
Work according to your circumstances, feel it."
This "negativity" is not the general negativity. Its something different. Be negative; to gain experience. The time would be tough, face it. Do not let yourself drain into it. Preserve the positivity. Wait for the time. This is not the kind of negativity often referred to as ill thinking, poor minded, avoidable etc. Be negative take out positives from it. We wish to take out benefit of every single thing that we do, beleive, think, be. So why should we leave negativity. Take out the positives from it too! For every negativity thought, and action you'll add up the experience. Negativity means speedy experience. Our final aim is to gain experience as fast as we could. Experience is what makes a person wise. This negativity in general terms is "The path to speedy success." Be benefited from this negativity. Do not depict it.
According to a study:
Negative thinking transforms anxiety into action. By imagining the worst- case scenario, defensive pessimists motivate themselves to work harder.If you’re the kind of person who’s always telling other people to look on the bright side, you might want to reconsider. Whether people succeed is not a matter of thinking positively or negatively, but rather whether they choose the strategies that match their thinking styles. As psychologists Heidi Grant Halvorson and Tory Higgins write in Focus, “It’s the fit that counts.”
And if you’re a defensive pessimist, when preparing for a performance that really matters, you might want to list your weaknesses instead of your strengths, and drink a glass of anxiety rather than a shot of confidence.
"Think negative, conceal it.
Speak positive, reveal it.
Work according to your circumstances, feel it."
These thoughts that, at first glance, seem to be negative, really aren’t once we take the time to internalize them. They’re about realism. Realism isn’t positive or negative, and by having an accurate picture of reality we can make better life decisions.And in that sense these negative thoughts are most certainly positive.
Making impossible possible is through positivity.
The path behind it is negativity.
Negativity shows us failure. Failure evolves us as an individual. Being experienced with failure is just a part of the negative world.
Don’t just give up this soon. Move ahead work harder.
BUT, IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. Take an example…
An athlete is working very hard for a race. He practices 15 hrs a day.
Whereas another athlete, works hard under training with proper planning in the right direction. He practices only 5hrs a day
On the result day The latter won. This is the case between most people who have attained success and those who would have been at a much better place as compared to the previous ones. But, their efforts had gone into the wrong direction.•Failure is a challenge, You need to FEAR – “ Face everything and race” or “Fear everything and run”•But, we don’t need to give up we need to get up! Yes slowly but we need to!•Failure drives you to success .•Behind success there is always failure. Success is positive and Failure is negative. Hence, “NEGATIVITY IS THE PATH TO SUCCESS” •Being negative evolves you and makes you experienced.•Experience has no shortcuts, it is either attained earlier or later.
•Now, lets come up on the groups.
•People, slowly experiencing the world are gaining experience and can be said as a mixed person of negativity and positivity. Hence, there pace is slowed down.
•The ones, who started faster at the beginning was because they hadn’t seen the negativity and when negativity reaches them they aren’t able to cope up making their lives messed up! This is the main cause of most of the suicides. Coping with negativity is important.
•The people with a slow start are the persons who are gaining negativity. The time is very harsh! You need to thrive it! The future is in the hand of negativity. Trust the negativity. It’ll get you out of the mess it has created and you’ll be matured, experienced, positivitized. The pace will turn swifter with, nothing as a blockage.
•Let us take an example:
•Suppose, you are roaming on a dark, lonely street along with your friends.
• A positive person will start thinking ‘ what a memorable day, Well spent!’ The ideas would be cheerful and merry.
•A negative person will think ‘what if a goon, robber arrives?’
•Suddenly a gang of goons arrives.
•The positive persons would start thinking what to do?
•The negative person would hit them with a stick or throw chili powder or something that sort of!
•The actuality most persons don’t know is that “NEGATIVE PERSONS DON’T ONLY THINK NEGATIVE BUT ALSO THINK ABOUT ITS SOLUTIONS.”
•Thus, the negative person would be saved earlier and win the race earlier.
•If a positive person experienced negativity would be present he would mentally, emotionally, physically or by some other means find the best way to be saved.
•However, the case above is not always the same.
•Besides being negative a spirit of challenging your soul should be present.
•The negative soul would advise you that tasks are difficult for you to do.
•The challenging spirit is what will keep you alive, you challenge your soul and do the job. That is what will give you CONFIDENCE. It is taking risk for the soul’s sake.
•These sparks be it hope, positivity, competition etc. should never be dead, they would become aggression toward the right direction on the right time.
•These sparks don’t allow you to become a true negative soul. They are an investment towards a true soul.
•Being negative is an investment now, with short term losses for the future of experience, success, and contentment.
•Thus, being positive and negative is important. But behind positivity there will always be negativity and that’s the path to What you Are in search for!
WHAT TO DO?
•ABOVE ALL THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO BELIEVE, TO TRUST.
1. Discover yourself
•What you are interested in? What excites you? What fascinates you? What you have interest in? What makes you happy? Your Negatives? Your Positives?
2. Set up an aim
•When you have discovered yourself, set up a point in your life. This will be your aim.
3. Explore
•Explore your aim. What is necessary? What is needed? Requirements? Basically, its like researching on your aim.
4. Plan
• Set up the framework . Plan the track. Plan the work needed to be done. Plan everything. Plan in the RIGHT DIRECTION
5. Do
5. Do
• Commence the work for your Target.
6. Work Hard
•No matter what happens sacrifices need to be made. Work hard till the last ounce of your energy. Work Hard till you die working.
•No matter what happens sacrifices need to be made. Work hard till the last ounce of your energy. Work Hard till you die working.
7. Don’t give up
•Slow the pace sometimes but always keep moving.
8. Destination
8. Destination
•Well, many don’t manage to reach here. If you have managed to reach here congratulations you have Won over LIFE!!
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